Have you ever been sitting in a group or talking to a woman and all of a sudden she says something embarrassing or rude out of no were? If you're like most guys you are stunned and just sit there at a total loss for words. When interacting with women, especially in a bar setting, getting sass from women is inevitable. These are women's way of testing you! She wants to see how you'll react.
Most guys reactions are wrong! Men are too surprised to say anything, some don't know what to say, and others get offended and insulting towards the woman. All these reactions do nothing more than show her you are insecure and care way too much about what she thinks of you.
The attitude behind your words in these situations should be one of self-confidence. You do not need validation from women especially one you just met! The second and very important thing you should know is a snappy comment you can deliver with no hesitation.
Depending on what you say and how you say it can either defuse the situation or cause things to become heated. The way to create a fun and defusing comeback for common situations or tests is to use both arrogance and humor. You should think of common situations with women that make you uncomfortable! This way you will have a great comment "in your pocket" should these situation arise.
First think of a totally arrogant reply for a women being testy, then add a little humor. If a women says "your lucky to be talking to us" you could reply, "yes and if I get any luckier tonight I'll get so drunk I wont remember any of this" or you could say, "guess we know who the feisty one is" or "your modest, how cute." These few examples should give you the right idea. You are bringing her down a notch, showing confidence, and doing so in a humorous way.
This kind of comment should be delivered with a matter of fact yet playful tone. You are firm yet looking at her like you know she will find you intriguing. Remember, if you sound deeply offended or just saying a witty comeback in search of her approval you lose!
Now do yourself a favor and think of several other situations like her saying "you like me/ my friend don't you" or "how old are you" or "I don't give my phone number to guys in bars" or any number of other comments or situations. Then start thinking about witty comebacks.
When done properly, these kind of fragile interactions can turn into fun mental jousting matches between you and beautiful women. This will often turn into flirting and sexual tension that will set you apart from most other men. The other guys who apologies or get offended will get blown out of the water by a sassy women but you will build attraction
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